Tell Me So I Can Hear
A developmental approach to feedback and collaboration
By Ellie Drago-Severson and Jessica Blum-DeStefano
Categories: Educator evaluation, Learning designsDecember 2014
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How to Create a Feedback Culture
The following tips and reflective opportunities can help create a feedback culture for growth in your school or district:
Share developmental ideas with colleagues. This can help establish a common language and lens for thinking and talking about feedback.
Ask colleagues how you might best support them when offering feedback. What, for instance, would feel most helpful to them? Generally, people are willing to share their needs when they feel safe and respected.
Consider how your own way of knowing might influence your preferences for giving feedback. Are there ways you might expand your style or approach to more effectively help colleagues tune in to your feedback?
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Jessica ([email protected]) is course instructor & advisor, Bank Street Graduate School of Education.
Categories: Educator evaluation, Learning designs
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